Anonymous asked:
how do i tell a girl i like her?
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butchhousewife answered:
Ideas
- Write it down physically and give it to her
- Make her a playlist whose titles spell it out
- Tell her out loud
- Ask her on a date
- Make her a Valentine no matter what time of year it is
- Ask a friend to get a sense of whether she likes you too
- Drop hints for a little while by telling her that she smells good, by flirting a little, see how she reacts and doesn’t react
- If you do any kind of art, make her something!
- Pay attention to your own feelings and figure out what kind of method is best for you
Components of telling her you like her
- Don’t do it too publicly or in a way that makes her feel obligated to say one thing or another
- Give her lots of room to not return your feelings and be prepared for that answer
- Don’t make her answer
- Respect her feelings
- Tell her what you like about her
- If you’re nervous, let her know you’re nervous, it’s okay
- If you need to talk around it, you can (e.g. “how would you feel if I told you I liked you?”)
- It doesn’t have to be a huge moment, it can be small and quiet
- If you think she knows, you can go more romantic without it being pushy, making her dinner, asking her to a romantic event
- Speak from your heart, however you end up speaking
- Have a friend you can talk to right after no matter what she says
- Don’t say it in anger or in sadness. It’s wonderful and beautiful and sweet!
